Welcome to our Family and Friends page. This page is to help family members and friends of youth who self-injure find good information about self-injury.
As a friend or family member, what can you do?
There is an important role that family members and friends can play with youth who are willing to disclose about their self-injury. Firstly, the ability to listen and understand from a non-judgmental perspective will help to create an atmosphere of trust and support. Depending on the situation, assisting youth in talking with professionals may include helping them to decide whom they might wish to speak with and assisting them or even going with them to their first appointment.
As a parent, what other things can you do?
- Encourage your youth to navigate the youth section of this website
- Educate yourself about non-suicidal self-injury
- Depending on the situation, help your youth to find professional help
- Support attendance at therapist/ doctor appointments
It is important to appreciate that you may need both patience and persistence in order to help your youth. As a parent, your involvement in any course of treatment can be beneficial. Knowledge about self-injury can help you, as a parent, make informed decisions on how best to seek advice and/or treatment and provide support for youth. You may find the following links below helpful.
These books may be useful resources for parents who have self-injuring adolescents: