Welcome to our Family and Friends page! We have created this page to help family members and friends of youth who self-injure find good information about self-injury. We have visited the following websites ourselves, and have tried to give you a sense of the kind of information you’ll find beside each link.
As a friend or family member, what can you do?
There is an important role that family members and friends can play with youth who are willing to disclose about their self-injury. Firstly, the ability to listen and understand from a non-judgmental perspective will help to create an atmosphere of trust and support. Depending on the situation, assisting youth in talking with professionals may include helping them to decide whom they might wish to speak with and assisting them or even going with them to their first appointment.
|TheSite.org offers key information around self-harm, including:
As a parent, what other things can you do?
- Encourage your youth to navigate the youth section of this website
- Educate yourself about non-suicidal self-injury
- Depending on the situation, help your youth to find professional help
- Support attendance at therapist/ doctor appointments
It is important to appreciate that you may need both patience and persistence in order to help your youth. As a
parent, your involvement in any course of treatment can be beneficial. Knowledge about self-injury can help you, as a parent, make informed decisions on how best to seek advice and/or treatment and provide support for youth. You may find the following links below helpful.
|MindCheck.ca provides teens with information about to recognizing early signs and finding ways to deal with them to increase the chances of better long-term outcomes and positive mental health across the lifespan.|
|Visit the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry website by clicking on the image on the right for an article with ‘Facts for Families’ about Self-Injury in Adolescents.|
|Families Organized for Recognition and Care Equality (F.O.R.C.E.) is based in British Columbia and runs support groups for families dealing with mental health issues.|
|The Canadian Mental Health Association has resources on their website about Understanding Mental Illness, and Self-Injury in Youth. Read their page about coping with mental illness in the family by clicking on the link at the right. Or, visit their page about Youth and Self-Injury.|
|Here to Help is a British Columbia based information resource for individuals and families dealing with mental health issues.
Visit their page with resources on supporting a family member who has mental health issues.
These books are useful resources for parents who have self-injuring adolescents:
|Merry E. McVey-Noble, Sony Khemlani-Patel, & Fugen Neziroglu. When Your Child is Cutting: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Children Overcome Self-Injury. (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2006).
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